DIVORCE FACTS AND FICTION

I
n New York Divorce and Family Law is very complex.  Two very similar
cases may have two very different outcomes based upon the law as well
as the willingness or ability of the parties to litigate or compromise.

The uncontested divorce package offered by the Unified Court System is
poorly written and confusing.  It is hard to use and does not fit every case
and cannot be used effectively if one party does not want a divorce or if
the parties disagree about any issue.

Further, what you hear anecdotally from friends and acquaintances about
other peoples’ divorces or Family Court cases is no indication of what
may happen in your case.  The way to get the best advice regarding a
possible divorce or separation, child custody, spousal or child support or
any other domestic relations issue is to consult with a experienced
domestic relations attorney.

There are many myths about divorce and family law that we often hear
repeated by clients when they come in for their initial consultation.  These
include the following:

    Living "pursuant to a separation agreement for a period of one
    year" automatically "converts" your agreement into a divorce.
    This is not true.  You still need to have a divorce action
    commenced and a divorce judgment signed by a judge in order to
    be divorced and have the marriage terminated.

    If you leave the marital residence you give up your right to the
    equitable distribution of marital property.
    This is not true.  In New York the grounds for divorce generally do
    not affect property distribution. In fact, often grounds are not an
    issue.

    If you have a job you cannot receive spousal support or
    maintenance.
    This is not true. Spousal support and maintenance are based
    upon many factors only one of which is the income and
    employment of the party seeking support.

This information is not intended to substitute for legal advice from your
own retained lawyer.  You should consult with and retain experienced
legal counsel before you do anything to that may affect your marital rights.

ANTHONY BUONO
Attorney at Law
2880 Route 9
Post Office Box 300
Valatie, New York 12184
Telephone
518-758-1979
Facsimile
518-758-1978