In New York Divorce and Family Law is very complex. Two very similar cases may have two very different outcomes based upon the law as well as the willingness or ability of the parties to litigate or compromise.
The uncontested divorce package offered by the Unified Court System is poorly written and confusing. It is hard to use and does not fit every case and cannot be used effectively if one party does not want a divorce or if the parties disagree about any issue.
Further, what you hear anecdotally from friends and acquaintances about other peoples’ divorces or Family Court cases is no indication of what may happen in your case. The way to get the best advice regarding a possible divorce or separation, child custody, spousal or child support or any other domestic relations issue is to consult with a experienced domestic relations attorney.
There are many myths about divorce and family law that we often hear repeated by clients when they come in for their initial consultation. These include the following:
Living "pursuant to a separation agreement for a period of one year" automatically "converts" your agreement into a divorce. This is not true. You still need to have a divorce action commenced and a divorce judgment signed by a judge in order to be divorced and have the marriage terminated. If you leave the marital residence you give up your right to the equitable distribution of marital property. This is not true. In New York the grounds for divorce generally do not affect property distribution. In fact, often grounds are not an issue. If you have a job you cannot receive spousal support or maintenance. This is not true. Spousal support and maintenance are based upon many factors only one of which is the income and employment of the party seeking support.
This information is not intended to substitute for legal advice from your own retained lawyer. You should consult with and retain experienced legal counsel before you do anything to that may affect your marital rights.
ANTHONY BUONO Attorney at Law
2880 Route 9 Post Office Box 300 Valatie, New York 12184 Telephone 518-758-1979 Facsimile 518-758-1978